What Not to Do With a Mala: Common Mistakes That Can Shorten Its Life
Mala necklaces are more than just beautiful pieces of jewellery; they're personal, symbolic, and often infused with spiritual intention. Whether you use your mala for meditation, mindfulness, or as a grounding daily accessory, it's important to treat it with care.
At first glance, malas may seem strong and durable, but they’re actually delicate by design. Most are strung on silk or a fine thread, which means they require the same attention as any other piece of fine jewellery. If you want your mala to last for years (and possibly even a lifetime), below are some things not to do.
1. Don’t Wear Your Mala in Water
Water is one of the biggest culprits when it comes to weakening mala thread. Avoid wearing your mala in the shower, while swimming, or during sweaty workouts. Even exposure to steam in the bathroom can gradually degrade the silk or thread. Moisture can also affect the wood, seeds, or porous beads used in many malas.
2. Don’t Sleep in Your Mala
It might be tempting to wear your mala all day and night, especially if it has sentimental meaning, but sleeping in your mala can place unnecessary strain on the thread. Rolling around in bed can cause it to stretch, tangle, or snap.
3. Don’t Tug, Twist, or Play with the Tassel
I know, tassels are tempting to touch! But constantly tugging or twisting the tassel can cause the thread to fray or snap near the join, which is one of the most vulnerable spots. If you're someone who tends to fidget, be mindful of this habit when wearing your mala.
4. Don’t Let It Catch on Things
Malas can easily get caught on things like buttons, zippers, door handles, or bag straps. Always be conscious of how you're wearing it, especially when layering with other jewellery or scarves. A sudden snag can damage the thread or snap it entirely.
5. Don’t Store It in a Tangle
Avoid tossing your mala into a bag or jewellery box with other items. Tangling and friction with other jewellery can wear down the thread. Ideally, store your mala in a soft pouch or wrap it gently in fabric to keep it protected.
6. Don’t Apply Oils or Sprays Directly to the Thread
It’s okay to use essential oils on certain beads like lava stone or Rosewood, but avoid getting oil or spray on the silk thread or tassel. Oils can weaken the thread over time.
Don’t Worry if It Ages a Little
Your mala is a living object. Over time, it will naturally soften; the wooden beads may absorb your skin’s oils, your tassle will get fluffy and it might develop a bit of character. This is part of its charm and part of your journey with it.
Caring for your mala isn't just about keeping it beautiful - it's also about honouring the energy and intention it holds. A little mindfulness goes a long way in extending the life of your mala and deepening your connection with it.
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